Therefore, it can be tough to choose love over security. I myself fell into the trap of realizing life is hard enough that it doesn't help much to have someone you love be so fickle.
I can't deal with any of that anymore. I'd rather be alone or just be with someone who I know is going to be around than deal with a person who isn't. However, I also know that I don't want to get married until I know the person is "the one."