Tuesday, November 26, 2013

In Case You Thought I Wanted an Instant Relationship -- Not True


I think I may have given one or more of my exes the idea that I wanted an instant relationship. If so, I apologize for the misunderstanding and nothing could be further than the truth.

I never meant to give you that impression. After all, it's just as much my responsibility to decide what I want as well, right? The only thing I don't like is trying to tell a guy I'm glad I met him and that I enjoy his company for him to be a total downer.

Other than that, as long as we don't talk about the relationship and where it's going, believe me, I'm fine. Men are just as guilty of killing a relationship by talking about it too much, not just women. 

And, just because I express my feelings doesn't mean that I want something more than what it is. I sometimes just wish the man would let me live in my little fantasy for awhile. Is that too much to ask?

On the other hand, I read many books about not rushing relationships or worrying about marriage. Ironically, almost every man I ever dated brought up the subject (other than in a passing or joking manner) before I did.